After So Many Hard Times I’m Just Enjoying Life Now

There comes a time in our lives when  we get tired of the drama. Of our own drama, which we have imprinted in our heads, and of the drama that surrounds us. We also feel tired of evaluating ourselves, of wallowing in past mistakes and opening wounds that make us look like masochists.

There are those who always know how to balance themselves and not turn their lives into a vale of tears. Others, however, have traveled to this vale of tears countless times.

But suddenly, in some people,  fatigue appears ,  a deep laziness that prevents them from wanting to follow the same route of emotions. It could be that they just can’t anymore or that they have learned that it serves no purpose. Their energy to keep fighting leaves them.

So if you find yourself at this point and are unsettled as a result of this new sensation you are feeling, then you are  ready for a new phase that will be wonderful.

What will this new freedom look like?

• You will begin to act, not for the approval of others, but for what you really want.
• If someone doesn’t call or write you, you don’t think there’s anything wrong with you. You think this person was not meant for you and go on with your life with a new and beautiful indifference.

• You will think less and feel more.
• You will begin to appreciate the little things in life.
• You will close stages of your life with lock and key.
• Thinking about yourself will no longer feel selfish.
• You will stop comparing yourself to others. You will be the mirror you look in to correct and improve yourself. You will be the reference point to improve your life.

• You will be grateful for constructive criticism and you will learn to give it yourself.
• You’ll be assertive enough to say “no” to a party you don’t want to go to, with people you don’t want to go with.
• You will give without expecting to receive, but you will learn to know where the line of generosity and importance lies.

• You will stop analyzing disparaging comments towards you. You will use that time to plan important things.
• You will improve in any way you wanted, because you know that if you don’t do it, no one else will.
• Making yourself a victim will serve no purpose. You will take the reins of your life and stoically accept defeat. They are yours and you should not have to declare them.
• You will only ask for help if you know that it exists and that there are people who will do it from the bottom of the heart.
• You know there are few friends who would provide a bed and security.  Having too many friends is not the same as being less alone.
• Your values ​​will be strengthened with every step you take.
• You will exchange laziness for willingness.

• You will use technology to communicate, but you will not be a slave to it.
• Degrading criticism is read and put away without giving it a thought.
• You’ll wonder how you’ve been able to waste so much time trying to please people you don’t really care about, how you let them influence you in such a personal way with certain comments. But it will only take a few minutes because you will realize how happy you are now.
• Problems will come to you, but your experience will help you put them into perspective and solve them. You will not worry, you will take action.

• You may not have deserved so many disappointments in your life, but you will realize that such pain has been transformed into maturity, tranquility and serenity.

Now that you’re happy to know yourself and others (although others don’t matter as much as they used to), they’ll find this new side of you irresistible. Because nothing is more attractive than feeling good in your own skin and mind.