Don’t Yell At Me, You Can’t Stop Me

Don’t yell at me, ’cause you can’t stop me. No matter how much you raise your voice, I won’t obey you anyway.

I go my own way, and sometimes I’m wrong, but no matter how much you scream, you can’t stop me. All you do is show that you are incapable of being a nice person.

You know what they say: shouting louder doesn’t mean you’re right. What you get in return is just less respect and a bigger misunderstanding.

Words are said to be the best means of communication, but they also say something we often forget: the louder you say them, the more they lose value.

We yell because it’s an easy way to get attention, but what we really show is our lack of communication skills.

It’s much better to say “thank you” or “please” to reach a compromise. Expressing yourself in a reasonable way, not by yelling and trying to silence me.

Don’t yell at me, talk to me, listen to me, be patient and help me learn from my mistakes. Let’s learn from each other. Let’s not lose ourselves in screeching as if we were animals. Because we are not wild animals, we are rational beings.

The one who shouts attacks with his words

Don’t yell at me, don’t attack me, don’t use mean words. Keep in mind that words, if they don’t pass through the filter of reason, can poison an entire relationship.

Be brave and talk. Think about it if you yell at me, we’re not going to get anywhere because I won’t play your game.

You don’t intimidate me with your loud voice, because I won’t listen to you. Instead, I’ll run from your screeching like you don’t say a word. Because if you want to talk to me, you have to respect me.

And the key to respect is knowing how to listen and accepting that not everyone thinks the way you do. And you’ll have to start with me.

There is no greater self-esteem than ignoring the disrespect others show you. If they want your attention, they have to earn it. Don’t just give it to someone just because they yell.

Don’t yell at me, communicate with me

If you don’t know how to communicate, if you feel frustrated and anger comes out of your mouth without thinking, put yourself in my shoes and maybe you’ll understand me. Then you stop yelling at me.

If you don’t know how, I’ll give you advice: drama, labels, should and I’m always right  won’t help you get a good relationship.

And there’s no point in holding onto little things and then yelling at full volume and in detail about something you found annoying.

Don’t yell at me after a few days. Talk to me, teach me, share with me what you found annoying. Then we can find out whether our problem has a solution or not. Our problem, because it’s ours together…

And when we find ourselves at a crossroads, it’s best to choose our way instead of screaming to express our pain.

Don’t yell at me because we don’t learn anything from it. Don’t yell at me if you appreciate or love me.

If you want to teach me respect, be a role model

Don’t tell me about your kindness, don’t sell yourself as a victim or eternal sufferer. Show me what you want; be a role model, not a perpetrator.

Remember, the one who gives receives, not the one who demands without giving.

Think about all of us doing things wrong, we’re not perfect. But we learn, change and create. Tell me about your fears, open your heart. Let me understand you so we can turn the yelling into a “please.”

Let’s learn together, let’s get to know each other. Let’s not try to change each other, but just be who we are, but with more respect.

Don’t yell at me if you don’t like what I do, because if you love me, you accept me as I am. Don’t try to change me by yelling, you’ll only cause damage that way.

Don’t yell at me, ’cause you can’t stop me. No matter how much you scream, you can’t tell me where I’m going.