Five Characteristics Of Charismatic Persons
Your presence, speech and personality influence the way people see you. Some of us are seen as more charismatic and others more timid. But can we shape our personality? Is it possible to get that special magnetism like charismatic persons?
The answer is yes! Anyone can develop charisma, if you just believe in themselves. Do you want to know how? We give you some tips.
Charismatic persons radiate character, elegance and harmony
When we hear the word ‘charisma’ we probably immediately think of certain famous people. People like Meryl Streep, Winston Churchill or Barack Obama. What do they all have in common?
Charismatic persons have the ability to attract our attention and arouse admiration. Everyone seems to want to be around them. They have a unique magnetism that attracts others, and an enchanting self-confidence. We want to talk to them for hours or just enjoy their company.
They are people who come to a social event and automatically become the center of attention. But not because they are showing off or acting crazy, but simply because of who they are. What makes them so special?
5 Characteristics of Charismatic Persons
They convey confidence
The first thing to do is let others know they can count on you. When talking to them, maintain direct eye contact most of the time. Don’t do it all the time though, it can be intimidating and extremely uncomfortable.
Your gestures should convey tranquility. Your movements should be harmonious, without an ounce of nervousness or worry. When a leader loses credibility, it is difficult for him to regain it. Therefore, practice speeches or presentations in front of the mirror first. This way you can add small details that will convey confidence to your audience.
They use civilized but understandable language
It is essential to show that you are a learned person with a rich, varied vocabulary. Charismatic persons are good speakers and know how to captivate people with what they say. How? They use a language that is easy to understand and accessible to all, but which always shows that they are educated.
By the way, don’t go overboard on this, even if you have done your homework so well. Using overly complicated, flashy, or technical words can make you seem arrogant or conceited. Always respect the other person’s turn to speak, even if you strongly disagree. Also a good idea is not to criticize others. Use your ingenuity and creativity to show a different perspective or enrich theirs.
To appear friendly and educated, your audience needs to respect your words and listen to you. We recommend using ‘we’ instead of ‘I’, this will involve others in your conversation and create community.
They speak neither too loudly nor too softly and use the right tone
How many times have you listened to politicians say things that made no sense but were only applauded for the tone they used! What is said is just as important as how it is said.
The secret is not to hesitate, to run around the facts or use just one rhythm. Pausing helps you capture your listener’s attention. Pause after important parts you want your audience to remember.
Talking too fast or too slow will cause mistrust or just irritation in people. The same goes for using an extremely sharp or serious tone. To emphasize certain key words in your speech, you can increase your volume quite a bit. Always keep it natural.
They have the right attitude
The way you stand is extremely important. You should keep your head up and straight, without turning it sideways. If you want to emphasize something, you can lift your chin slightly.
It is important not to let your shoulders slump and to always keep them at the same height. It is not necessary to be as stiff as a pole, but do stand upright. This position exudes determination and non-conformity, qualities that charismatic individuals possess. If they are dissatisfied, they will always do something about it. Thus, their dissatisfaction always leads to action and thus to change.
They have a modest wardrobe
We’re not so sure whether clothes really make the man. However, your clothes can help you appear more charismatic. This does not mean that you have to wear expensive designer clothes, but that you choose the right clothes. As you may have noticed by now, it’s all about moderation.
For women, wearing low necklines, extremely high heels, or bright colors can distract rather than attract attention. It is better to choose a sober style, something that you feel comfortable in. Accessories can help you complete your look.
For men, the best option is to wear a classic suit. With a light-colored shirt and matching tie, it’s sure to be a hit. Or omit your tie and replace your jacket with a blazer.
You don’t have to be a leader to be charismatic, but most leaders do have charisma. While there is no guide to developing charisma and some are just born with it, with a little practice you can go a long way. Being more charismatic opens doors. Why don’t you give it a try? If you want different results, do something different!
